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MALE AND FEMALE ASPECTS OF GOD
The only Being is
manifested throughout all planes of existence in two aspects, male and female,
representing nature's positive and negative forces. In the plane of
consciousness there are two aspects: Wahdat,
consciousness, and Ahadiat, eternal
consciousness, and thus also spirit and matter, night and day, signify the dual
aspect on lower planes. In the mineral and vegetable kingdoms sex is in a state
of evolution, but the highest manifestation of male and female is man and
woman.
Man being the first aspect
of manifestation, is the more spiritual and nearer to God; woman being the next
manifestation, is finer and more capable of divine knowledge. Man's natural
tendency is towards God, while woman's tendency is towards the world. These
contrary tendencies result in balance. Therefore man needs woman to direct his
life, and woman needs man for her guidance and protection, both being
incomplete in themselves.
The problem of the
emancipation of woman may be studied by a comparison of her position in the
East and in the West.
The Oriental woman, whose
freedom is restricted, is the better wife from the individual point of view,
but the enforced inactivity of half the population is not beneficial to the
nation. The Occidental woman who is given entire freedom is less anxious for
and less capable of home life, but being out in the world her influence
promotes the advancement of the nation.
At first sight it would
appear that woman is more respected by man in the West, but in reality the East
gives her the greater reverence.
Man has more freedom than
woman throughout the entire world because he has more strength and power; and
the fineness of woman needs protection, just as the eye, being the finest organ
of the body, has been protected by nature with eyelids. Both excel in their own
characteristics.
A virgin is idolized by man
because she is the model of high manifestation; woman's virtue is a greater
ideal than her physical and intellectual beauty. Nature has placed her under
the protection of man, but what is most desirable is that man gives her freedom
and that she appreciates it by making the best use of it.
There are three kinds of
virgins. One, commonly considered a virgin, who has never had association with
a man; another is the virgin in heart, whose love is centered
in one beloved only; and the third is the virgin in soul, who considers man as
God. She alone can give birth to a divine child.
A woman may become a
doctor, solicitor, or minister, but it is incomparably greater if she can
become a good wife and a kind mother.
Monogamy and polygamy are
inborn human attributes. They also exist among birds and beasts. Each
individual is born with one of these tendencies, but sometimes one rather than
the other is developed by the effect of the atmosphere and surroundings. These
tendencies also depend upon the climatic and physical conditions of different
countries and races. Polygamy may be natural to man, and monogamy to woman, as
the former helps manifestation while the latter destroys it. Illegal polygamy
is worse than legal, because it creates deceit and falsehood. Monogamy is the
ideal life which is a comfort in this world and the next, and perfects one in
love.
Absolute renunciation is as
undesirable as is the blind attachment to the world. The ideal life is detached
interest in the world, which is best accomplished by man and woman together.
Woman is a mystery within
herself, owing to her subtle nature. Sages who made the mistake of considering
woman to be of lesser spiritual importance forgot that they themselves were the
product of woman.
The majority of prophets
and masters have been men because man is the higher manifestation, as is
signified by the myth of Adam and Eve, in which Eve was born from the rib of
Adam, meaning that woman is the later manifestation; the fruit means that woman
directed man's thoughts towards procreation. The interpretation of Adam and
Eve's exile from heaven is the fail of mankind from the state of innocence to
the state of youth. The separation and unhappiness of Adam and Eve show the
object of God to manifest in the dual aspect, that He may accomplish his real
desire of love. According to the Vedanta half of the divine body, Ardhangi, is womanhood, proving that unity of both is the
complete life.
Sufis consider a life of
complete unity the most balanced, if it is true and harmonious. Love and wisdom
create harmony between man and woman; but these being absent, harmony ceases to
exist.
A child inherits more
attributes from its mother than from its father, therefore the mother is more
responsible for its merits and defects and if she has knowledge she can train
the soul of her child even before its birth by the power of her concentration, molding the child's future according to her own will.
Harmony between truer
persons is more lasting than the affections of average mankind. People of
angelic qualities have everlasting harmony between them, in which God Himself
accomplishes His object of manifestation.
Mankind is born with a
worshipful attitude, and as all attitudes demand satisfaction by expression, so
the attitude of worship finds its object of adoration. The ancient Greeks and
Shiva Bhaktas of India worshipped both aspects of
manifestation in the names of gods and goddesses. Sufism, being the essence of
all religions and philosophies, looks upon both the opposite aspects of nature
as one in reality, and calls it Safat Allah.
Sufis reach realization of God by adoring His nature, calling on Him saying, 'Kull-i shayin Há
l-i kull', which means,
'Everything will perish except His own Face.' They look upon all names and
forms as the means of realizing the One, the only Being.
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