7. The Law of Balance in Life.
It is also the case with human affairs. Social positions high or low, occupations
spiritual or temporal, work rough or gentle, education perfect or imperfect,
circumstances needy or opulent, each has its own advantage as well as
disadvantage. The higher the position the graver the responsibilities, the
lower the rank the lighter the obligation. The director of a large bank can
never be so careless as his errand-boy who may stop on the street to throw a
stone at a sparrow; nor can the manager of a large plantation have as good a
time on a rainy day as his day-labourers who spend it in gambling. The
accumulation of wealth is always accompanied by its evils; no Rothschild nor
Rockefeller can be happier than a poor pedlar.
A mother of many children may be troubled by her noisy little ones and envy
her sterile friend, who in turn may complain of her loneliness; but if they
balance what they gain with what they lose, they will find the both sides are
equal. The law of balance strictly forbids one's monopoly of happiness. It
applies its scorpion whip to anyone who is given to pleasures. Joy in extremity
lives next door to exceeding sorrow. "Where there is much light,"
says Goethe, "shadow is deep." Age, withered and disconsolate, lurks
under the skirts of blooming youth. The celebration of birthday is followed by
the commemoration of death. Marriage might be supposed to be the luckiest event
in one's life, but the widow's tears and the orphan's sufferings also might be
its outcome. But for the former the latter can never be. The death of parents
is indeed the unluckiest event in the son's life, but it may result in the
latter's inheritance of an estate, which is by no means unlucky. The disease of
a child may cause its parents grief, but it is a matter of course that it
lessens the burden of their livelihood. Life has its pleasures, but also its
pains. Death has no pleasure of life, but also none of its pain. So that if we
balance their smiles and tears, life and death are equal. It is not wise for
us, therefore, to commit suicide while the terms of our life still remain, nor
to fear death when there is no way of avoiding it.
Again, the law of balance does not allow anyone to take the lion's share of
nature's gifts. Beauty in face is accompanied by deformity in character.
Intelligence is often uncombined with virtue. "Fair girls are destined to
be unfortunate," says a Japanese proverb, "and men of ability to be
sickly." "He makes no friend who never makes a foe."
"Honesty is next to idiocy." "Men of genius," says
Longfellow, "are often dull and inert in society; as the blazing meteor
when it descends to earth is only a stone." Honour and shame go hand in
hand. Knowledge and virtue live in poverty, while ill health and disease are
inmates of luxury.
Every misfortune begets some sort of fortune, while every good luck gives
birth to some sort of bad luck. Every prosperity never fails to sow seeds of
adversity, while every fall never fails to bring about some kind of rise. We
must not, then, despair in days of frost and snow, reminding ourselves of
sunshine and flowers that follow them; nor must we be thoughtless in days of
youth and health, keeping in mind old age and ill health that are in the rear
of them. In brief, all, from crowns and coronets down to rags and begging
bowls, have their own happiness and share heavenly grace alike.
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