2. Education
The
Right and Duty of Parents Regarding Education
36. The
task of giving education is rooted in the primary vocation of married couples
to participate in God's creative activity: by begetting in love and for love a
new person who has within himself or herself the vocation to growth and
development, parents by that very fact take on the task of helping that person
effectively to live a fully human life. As the Second Vatican
Council recalled, "since parents have conferred
life on their children, they have a most solemn obligation to educate their
offspring. Hence, parents must be acknowledged as the first and foremost
educators of their children. Their role as educators is so decisive that
scarcely anything can compensate for their failure in it. For it devolves on
parents to create a family atmosphere so animated with love and reverence for
God and others that a well-rounded personal and social development will be fostered
among the children. Hence, the family is the first school of those social
virtues which every society needs."(99)
The right
and duty of parents to give education is essential, since it is connected with
the transmission of human life; it is original and primary with regard to the
educational role of others, on account of the uniqueness of the loving
relationship between parents and children; and it is irreplaceable and
inalienable, and therefore incapable of being entirely delegated to others or usurped
by others.
In
addition to these characteristics, it cannot be forgotten that the most basic
element, so basic that it qualifies the educational role of parents, is
parental love, which finds fulfillment in the task of education as it completes
and perfects its service of life: as well as being a source, the parents' love
is also the animating principle and therefore the norm inspiring and guiding
all concrete educational activity, enriching it with the values of kindness,
constancy, goodness, service, disinterestedness and self-sacrifice that are the
most precious fruit of love.
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