(43) “Preparation for marriage, for married and family life, is of great
importance for the good of the Church.
In fact, the sacrament of Marriage has great value for the whole
Christian community and, in the first place, for the spouses whose decision is
such that it cannot be improvised or made hastily. In the past, this preparation could count on the support of
society which recognized the values and benefits of marriage. Without any difficulties or doubts, the
Church protected the sanctity of marriage with the awareness that this
sacrament represented an ecclesial guarantee as the living cell of the People
of God. At least in the communities that were truly evangelized, the Church’s
support was solid, unitary and compact.
In general, separations and marriage failures were rare, and divorce was
considered a social ‘plague’ (cf. Gaudium
et Spes, 47). Today, on the
contrary, in many cases, we are witnessing an accentuated deterioration of the
family and a certain corrosion of the values of marriage. In many nations, especially economically
developed ones, the number of marriages has decreased. Marriage is usually contracted at a later
age and the number of divorces and separations is increasing, even during the
first years of married life. All this
inevitably leads to a pastoral concern that comes up repeatedly: Are the
persons contracting marriage really prepared for it? The problem of preparation for the sacrament of Marriage and the
life that follows emerges as a great pastoral need, first for the sake of the
spouses, for the whole Christian community and for society. Therefore, interest in, and initiatives for
providing adequate and timely answers to preparation for the sacrament of Marriage
are growing everywhere”.[98][98]
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