Conclusion
(50) Over the ages, the wisdom of peoples, albeit with limitations, has
substantially been capable of recognizing the essence and the fundamental and
irreplaceable mission of the family based on marriage. The family is a necessary and indispensable
good for the whole of society, and it has a real and proper right in justice to
be recognized, protected and promoted by the whole of society. It is this whole of society that is damaged
when this precious and necessary good of humanity is wounded in any way. Before the social phenomenon of de facto
unions, and the postponing of conjugal love which this implies, society itself
cannot remain indifferent. Merely
erasing the problem through the false solution of granting them recognition and
placing them on a public level similar to, or even equivalent to families based
on marriage, is a detrimental comparison to marriage (which further damages
this natural institution, that is so necessary today, rather than providing
real family policies). Moreover, this implies a profound lack of recognition of
the anthropological truth about the human love between a man and a woman, and
its inseparable aspects of stable unity and openness to life. This lack of recognition is still more grave
when the essential and very profound difference is ignored between conjugal
love, that comes from the institution of marriage, and homosexual
relationships. The “indifference” of
public administrations toward this aspect is very similar to a kind of apathy
with regard to the life or death of society, an indifference about its future
projection or its degradation. If
suitable remedies are not applied, this “neutrality” would lead to a serious
breakdown of the social fabric and of the pedagogy of the future generations.
The
under-evaluation of conjugal love and its intrinsic openness to life, with the
instability of family life that this entails, is a social phenomenon that
requires proper discernment by all those who feel committed to the good of the
family, and in a very special way by Christians. This means first of all recognizing the real causes (ideological
and economic) of the situation, and not giving in to demagogic pressures by
lobbies that do not take the common good of society into consideration. The Catholic Church, in following Jesus
Christ, recognizes in the family and in conjugal love a gift of communion of
the merciful God with humanity, a precious treasure of holiness and grace that
shines in the midst of the world.
Therefore, it invites those who are fighting for the cause of man to
unite their efforts in promoting the family and its intimate source of life
which is the conjugal union.
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