2. Through on-going
contact with the Episcopal Conferences and the Bishops in various meetings, and
especially their "ad limina" visits, the Pontifical Council for the
Family has carefully followed the pastoral concern regarding the preparation
and celebration of the sacrament of Marriage and the life that follows. The
Council has been repeatedly asked to offer an instrument for the preparation of
Christian engaged persons which the present document represents. The Council
has also drawn on the contributions from many Apostolic Movements, Groups and
Associations working for the pastoral care of the family who have offered their
support, advice and experience for the preparation of these guidelines.
Marriage
preparation constitutes a providential and favourable period for those
oriented toward this Christian sacrament, and a Kayrós, i.e., a period
in which God calls upon the engaged and helps them discern the vocation to
marriage and family life. The engagement period is set within the context of a
rich evangelization process. In fact, questions that affect the family converge
in the life of the engaged, the future spouses. They are therefore invited to
understand the meaning of the responsible and mature love of the community of
life and love which their family will be, a real domestic church which will
contribute toward enriching the whole Church.
The
importance of this preparation involves a process of evangelization which is
both maturation and deepening in the faith. If the faith is weak or almost
nonexistent (cf. Familiaris Consortio = FC 68), it must be
revived. Thorough, patient instruction that arouses and nourishes the ardor of
a living faith cannot be excluded. Especially where the environment has become paganized,
it will be particularly advisable to offer a "journey of faith, which is
similar to the catechumenate" (FC 66), and a presentation of the
fundamental Christian truths that may help acquire or strengthen the maturity
of the faith of the persons contracting marriage. It would be desirable if the
favourable moment of marriage preparation could be transformed, as a sign of
hope, into a New Evangelization for the future families.
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